can we patch things up? start over again?

So long story short, I like this girl a lot, she doesn't feel the same way. Apparently. She's been avoiding me lately because of it, as she apparently "isn't interested that way" and "isn't sure what to do", according to a mutual friend who told me that's what the case it after talking to her. We used to be super close and it's confusing to me because she definitely SEEMED interested. I mean there were a lot of good signs. (Texting all the time, calling me "amazing", "cute", "hilarious", "one of her favorite people" etc, also telling me she's glad we met). Also, she told me two different times that she slept every night with the stuffed animal I got her for her birthday and that it was the best present she ever received. ...And I thought I made it pretty clear early on how I felt. Maybe I just waited too long, I dunno. but she's still ignoring me and I dunno what to say. She means a ton to me and even if she doesn't want to date I'd still like to remain good friends. I really wanna have a talk with her about it and figure something out too. But I don't wanna be pushy either. And on top of all this, she liked a guy a while ago but he ended up turning her down. So maybe that had something to do with this. I don't know. Nothing bad happened or was said between us, we just drifted apart and haven't been talking. So there's no real bad feelings or whatever between us. so what do I do? I really wanna talk to her about all this soon and let her know that I'm not mad at her about any of this. I just need to talk. And we, like I said, haven't been talking at all. The weird part is though, a couple days ago she was replying to posts I made on Tumblr (where we both follow each other), the first of which was just an off hand comment I made that she replied to and then wrote in my ask box about. And she was laughing about it too so it was odd having her suddenly talking to me (albeit very briefly) out of nowhere like that after all the silence. And I was wanting to ask her to hang out so we could just talk this weekend, but idk. I'm in her town this weekend, and we're both on break, so...yeah. I get too nervous and feel too awkward to say hi any time I see her online. Am I over-thinking it and making this to be more awkward than it really is? Why won't she just tell me herself she doesn't want anything to do with me? I want her to know I'm not mad or uncomfortable talking to her about anything. I just hope I'm not making her feel uncomfortable, you know? I dunno. anyway, thanks.

If my nephew rubs his private on my daughter, is that considered molestation?

my 7 year old daughter was asked by my 9 year old nephew if she knew how babies were made. she said no so he told her to lie down and got on top of her. they were fully clothed but she said he rubbed his private on her private and it made her feel uncomfortable. she yelled at him trying to get him off but he didn't stop until he was done doing the rubbing action. when he got off of her he said, "there, that's how babies are made." would this be a case of molestation? am i really supposed to continue to allow my daughter to be around my nephew and his family just because they are family? i feel alone in this situation because the family isn't seeing it as such a big deal. How is it not a big deal? Weren't we told when we were children that we shouldn't allow anyone to touch us in an uncomfortable manner? please help!

Japanese radio audio listening what they say (part 2)?

Hello, I asked days ago about a radio audio and someone kindly do a little transcript of I would like to know is if they nominated "MIchael Jackson" just to do a pun and then change discussion, or in some ways after nominate Michael Jackson (especially the man3) says something releated to him in someways? The efforts on the stage and performance's talking? I would also like to know if they are make fool of Michael or saying things in a disrespectful way? Or the man3 says in kind way the pun? I mean he called "Michael Jackson" as "Michael", it seems a way to call in confidential way lol, if you don't like him, I don't think you called affectionately by the first name only, "Michael". So from this little hint, I suppose is not a pun to despise him, right? Thanks again for the help! Here the transcript (thank you!) that I received: man1:すみませんでした。 man2:なまものなので、ライブには いっかいいっかい きてほしいね。 man1:そうなんですよね。 man2:みんなそれぞれ、こう、(I couldnt hear the word here) をもって、 はなしあってつぎのライブ、はなしあってつぎのライブをくりかえして るから まいかい(I coundnt hear this either)サプライズといい、せいちょう していく すがたを いっしょに みとどけてほしいと おもいます。 man1or someone else:えんそうしてても おもいますもんね。 まいかい おなじきょくやってもちがうなって。 man2:つねに100パーセントをだすし、で、じかいになったらまた その100パーセントのハードルがあがっているし、で、よりよいもの よりよいものを シンクロさせて つくりあげていっているので、 いっかいいっかいのライブみのがすなとすなよと。 man1or someone else:そのとおりですね。 うまくまとめちゃったけど。 man1or someone else:きょうのライブどうでしたって。 man3?:ぼくはですね、めずらしく きんちょうしました。 man2 or someone else: まあ めずらしい man3:じかんが おしてたんじゃなくて、まいてたのでマイケルジャクソン (The man3 is saying a kind of pun here:まいてたのでマイケル) man2:だれがそんなことを(He ridiculed the pun) man3:じかんのちょうせいがうまくできず、きゅうに「いまからだよ」と いうかんじではじまったので、でもそれがちょうど りゅうし (it sounds like he is saying" ryuusi" here but Im not sure)だったので きょくが。びっくりしました。 someone else:お、(couldnt hear) してくれた。じゃっかん まだ いっそく だったので、ほんとうは いつもだったら こう (couldnt hear) してる じょうたいで

What would you do...?

I emailed a company to find out if one of their second-rate products I saw on eBay was genuine as the price was too good to be true (I didn't include a link, just photos). The company indirectly admitted to its authenticity but said any they have are donated to charitable organisations and that any on eBay are stolen and are illegally being sold. The company then said I should feel free to let them know the name of the seller if I wished. Prior to contacting the company, I emailed the eBay seller to find out more about the ad, return policy etc. and he was very helpful. I would feel quite awful if I reported him but at the same time it isn't right if the items are illegally being sold, but then does the seller even know they've been stolen? It is worth noting that the company originates from the US and the eBay seller is based in the UK. What would you do?